This is very common and a pattern that couples fall into. Both feel disconnected and lonely and not talking about it. All they talk about is the kids and planning and not too much else. Couples fall into parallel lives living alongside each other like roommates or flat mates doing their own thing. And they can’t remember the last night they had a date night. Have you heard that expression if you keep doing the same thing you will get the same results. Try something different before it becomes serious and you end up going you're different ways. Here’s some ideas: Tools: … Read More
I will be happy when I get the better job, partner, house, car, bank balance, health, blah, blah blah. You’re setting yourself up for disaster. Have you noticed when you get the better job, relationship, house you initially feel good but then the same mind filling chatter occurs and feelings of frustration, agitation, discontentment and more. It’s a continuous cycle of thinking its out there your happiness and if I keep searching I will find it. If I try harder, work harder, push harder it will happen this happiness. Stop right there. Happiness is an inside job, your inner work that … Read More
To create your ultimate life takes commitment, time and daily practice. Intuition is crucial as you will trust your inner voice and what is right for you. Start each day with the intention of being intuitive, of listening to your inner voice. A great way to do this is by using affirmations, which are positive statements that we repeat over and over again. Affirmations can be used in any area of your life. They reinforce to your mind the outcome that you are looking to achieve. For example, choose an affirmation such as ‘I love and approve of myself’ or one relating … Read More
Are you numb, show little emotion, going thru the motions and don't feel much? You may be living from the head up which means you overthink and are just living in your head. A monkey mind? We sometimes do that due to trauma, extended period of stress, as a child not being able to say what you fell and think. Its fixable if you want to. A great place to begin is acknowledging what you're doing and deciding you want to change. Sometimes you may need support with therapy or you may be able to work on this yourself. Many people need … Read More
What do you get from meditation? An inner peace, a home coming to yourself, energy, contentment, centeredness, a grounding and I can go on and on......... You ask, how can meditation give me all of this? Meditation can be the heading and under it is self care, nurturing and stillness. If you give it time at least 4 to 8 weeks you will begin to feel the changes within yourself Meditation is the art of focusing all of your attention in one area. Mastering the skill of meditation takes time and requires practice. The benefits of meditation include: • Connecting to your … Read More
How does your relationship stack up? Start a conversation today ( yes we all put it off to wait for the right time) with your partner to elevate your relationship. A relationship takes time and commitment and we all deserve to have a fulfilling relationship. If you’re not in one start asking yourself questions as to what can I do to change the situation. Create the space for you both to share how you are feeling. Here's some ideas to tune up your relationship. Start with one and work towards doing more in the future * Spend quality time together where you … Read More
Are you and your partner arguing, bickering and very defensive of each other? When did you last look into your partners eyes? Do you have resentment or feel numb towards your partner? If you answer yes to any of the questions then I suggest you read the list. It's not going away the disharmony in your relationship. If anything, it will keep happening again and again and more often and more intently. Making your relationship a priority can help enormously and its really doesn't take too much to get your relationship back on track if you catch it in time. Putting in … Read More
We often talk about being accomplished and what we have achieved. I believe its not the quantity and how much you have achieved but whether you have accomplished the right things, for you. Not for your mother, father, partner, but for you. Imagine spending years on the wrong things? And yes, it happens for many of us where you are trying to please others. FACT: pleasing others doesn't work long term. It's essential that you live with clarity, your clarity and what makes your heart sing what makes you feel happy, peaceful contentment and feeling joy and balance. How do … Read More
In this one minute video, Helen speaks about a woman suffering from PTSD who was essentially housebound. After 3 sessions of hypnotherapy, she is now out in the world living vibrantly.
Helen Harrison answers the question, "Do Couples Fight in Counselling?". In this one minute video we have a small window into the office of a professional counsellor.